First, think young and modern, and what could be more modern than a throwback to your mom’s day? That’s right, vintage is the new hip baby shower theme. So pull out those photos of your mom’s baby shower and steal some ideas.

Bring on the pink in argyle, stripes or polka dots. When you look back to some of those 1960s and 1970s baby shower photos, you’ll find that they look ultra-stylish now. Major stores are now offering more and more funky vintage paper goods, wrapping paper and decorations. Check online or at the big box or discount stores for baby shower decorations that have that retro chic feel.

Browns and pinks are very current. Anything you want to set out in shades of pink or chocolate brown will look very modern. Say you have a pink table cloth. Don’t go with a set of pink paper napkins. Go with a contrasting chocolate brown for the napkins, cups and cutlery (plastic is fine).

Your balloons can be several shades of pink from hot pink to the lightest hue of ice pink. Put some brown balloons in with the mix and carry your theme through.

Why not do a baby girl tree in pink? You can find these online especially at Christmas time. A pink faux tabletop Christmas tree (you can find them all year online) decorated with cute little baby items will look charming and very unique. When you send out your invitations, request that everyone bring a small ornament or baby item for the tree. Then give the whole tree to the mom to be. Items can be anything from a little glass baby rattle ornament to a set of nail clippers on a string. You could even tie a string around travel sized baby products and tie them on to the tree as well. It’s such a lovely centerpiece and very different from what everyone will be used to.

Set up a chair where the mom to be can open her presents. Make it special by placing a pink polka dot fleece blanket over the chair and a giant brown bow. Mom can then take the blanket home for baby. Go big with your accent touches. Give out pink candles in little brown polka dot votive holders. Have pink and brown M&Ms on hand and bowls of pink foods like Jell-O or ambrosia.

Your cake can be a masterpiece tower of pinks and browns, or you could have a bakery create cupcakes that feature chocolate frosting with pink fondant circle accents. If you’re doing cupcakes, you can place them on cake stands stacked one on top of another, pink glass, of course. When you stack the cake stands the result will look like a several-layer cake.

There are so many ways to do a 'it's a girl' shower without being overly cutesy.

When decorating for your shower, it’s easy to be practical and fun at the same time. Add a few balloons around the gift table, decorate the guest of honor’s chair with pink streamers and add a pretty pink tablecloth to your food table. It’s not necessary to go overboard on decorations - especially if you are decorating on a budget. By using a bit of creativity, many of your decorations can even double as prizes or guest favors. A beautiful baby girl diaper cake makes a great centerpiece and can later be taken apart so mom can use the diapers. You can also order a baby girl cookie bouquet as a centerpiece, then send each cookie home with special guests as sweet treat! When setting out punch cups for your guests, tie a pretty pink ribbon on each handle to continue the color scheme. You can even decorate one of the punch cups with a white ribbon and the person who uses that cup receives a special prize. If you will be setting the table for your guests, position a special baby shower favor at each place setting for the guests to take home.

There are a number of baby shower games that you can play, but don’t plan more than 3 games. Between visiting with friends, opening gifts and eating, your guest of honor may feel stressed if there are too many games, especially if you don’t get to all of them in the time allotted. Keep the games simple so that everyone can enjoy themselves! There are a number of game suggestions on the internet, a simple search for “baby shower games” will turn up hundreds of results. You can even make up a few of your own shower games; a very simple game is to take the letters from mom and dad’s names and create as many new baby names as you can think of in 2 minutes. Have each guest share their names and mom can choose her favorite. You can also give a prize to the guest that has the most names on her list that no one else has written down. Another easy game that goes along with your “It’s A Girl” theme is to have each guest put their own spin on the popular phrase “Sugar and spice and everything nice, that’s what little girls are made of.” The funniest or most creative phrase wins a prize.

By decorating in a bright pink and white color scheme and planning simple but fun shower games, you are on the way to making your “It’s A Girl” baby shower a sweet success!

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Your invitation must include the date and time of the shower, as well as the shower location (include directions for any out-of-town guests). It is important to mention the guest of honor’s name, especially if you are a friend of the mother-to-be because some of her guests may not recognize your name as the hostess. You may opt to include the nursery or baby shower theme, any type of dress code (Sunday best or casual clothing), what type of refreshments will be included (light lunch, dessert or tea) and any stores where mom has registered for gifts.

If you are creating your own invitation, you can use construction paper or card stock and cut it into the shape of a baby face. If you are really creative, you can use a pink base and attach the cardstock to the base using baby pins or baby-themed scrapbooking supplies – just keep in mind that if you are using heavier items (such as rivets, brads or medallions) on your invitation you may need additional postage. Take the invitations directly to the post office so you are certain they won’t be held up in the mail. You can include a cute little poem as the introduction on your invitation.

Some examples are listed below:

Tea parties, baby dolls and pretty pink clothes,

This time it’s a girl dressed in ribbons and bows!

A little princess will soon be joining the Johnson castle,

You are invited to welcome her royal highness at a shower!

Soft as a whisper, so precious and sweet,

Tiny perfection from her head to her feet!

You should plan on sending out invitations 2-3 weeks in advance of the shower, and request that guests RSVP a week before the shower. The more guests you invite, the more important it is to receive RSVP’s so you will have enough seating, food and refreshments. Include the mommy-to-be when choosing a shower date and making out the invitation list; be sure to invite her sisters, mother, mother-in-law, as well as any close friends, neighbors and co-workers. If you find that your guest list is too long, ask the mommy-to-be which group of people should be left out. When you include the guest of honor in the planning process, your It’s A Girl baby shower is sure to be a success!

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How To Plan A Co-ed or Couples Baby Shower

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There are debatable reasons to hold the shower both before and after baby is born, but the best way to decide is to ask the mother. If she’s having a particularly difficult pregnancy or if guests will be traveling from far away, it’s a good idea to wait until after baby has arrived so mom can be more relaxed and guests will have a chance to see the baby of honor. However, if mom is sailing along in her pregnancy with no complications and this is her first pregnancy, you may want to hold the shower before the little sweetheart arrives so you can help mom and dad decorate her room or have enough diapers for the first few weeks!

Keep in mind that the baby – especially if she will be mom’s firstborn – can make her arrivals sooner or later than expected, so don’t plan the shower too close to her due date or your guest of honor may not be able to attend!

If mom is absolutely certain that a baby girl is on the way, or if she has already arrived, you can have fun with a modern baby girl baby shower to treat the beautiful baby girl like the royal princess that she is! Many decorations and baby shower favors feature a chubby cheeked sweetheart with a single curl on her head and a pink ribbon in her hair. From personalized shower invitations to thank you notes and everything in between, you can easily transform your baby shower location into a little girl haven – complete with pink streamers, feminine tableware, “It’s A Girl” shower games, even a pretty pink corsage for mom!

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• Personalized Baby Shower Favor Ideas
• It's A Girl Baby Shower
• Creative and Fun Baby Shower Game Ideas