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Necessities for New Babies

Monday, April 21st, 2008

When I moved into my first apartment I remember feeling so overwhelmed because I was running out to the store to get important things for my new living space at least once a day. All the little things that your parents had that you took for granted like shower curtain liners, pots and pans, toasters, spatulas, whisks, condiments, clothes hamper, etc. I always needed one little thing to finish what I was doing and it was hard. I can only imagine what it will be like trying to buy what I need for a new baby and avoid running to the store for a small but important forgotten item.

I have often thought that while apartment shopping it would have been nice to have a checklist of things needed. It also would have been nice to know what I wouldn’t need as well. I found myself buying things I thought I needed but didn’t, like that orange juicer that I have never used. I am sure that even with preparation, having a baby will sweep me away into the never-ending ocean of “especially for baby” but necessary items. But even still, forward thinking, I have done a little research and prepared a list of things that every expecting Mother needs and a few that you could probably go without when deciding what to buy for your new baby.

So what CAN you live without?

  • Baby bathtub - People seem to have trouble with these, either because they are hard to use, hard to store or the baby doesn’t like them. It seems just as easy to take the baby into the bath with you.
  • Car bottle warmer - A good idea, but they don’t tend to warm up quickly enough on quick trips.
  • Cradles/Bassinets/Cribs - It could be that the trend toward the family bed is giving people an alternative to cradles and bassinets, but many mothers said they took up too much space and babies were rarely, if ever, happy in them.
  • Pillows are NOT RECOMMENDED, babies do not need them, and furthermore pillows are associated with crib death.
  • Diaper Genie - most people find these frustrating to operate.
  • Changing table - They take up a lot of space and don’t allow for the most versatile storage. Many parents find it just as easy to convert a bureau to a changing table or just change the baby on the floor.

So what CAN’T you live without?

  • Car seats - are not items to skimp on. Unless you know the previous owner very well, car seats are not good items to get second-hand. Manufacturers advise that any car seat that has been in any kind of accident, no matter how minor, must be replaced. Car seats are carefully constructed to protect their precious cargo, and any compromise to the structure could limit its effectiveness.
  • Stroller - Many infants do well in a sling, but if you’re talking about long walks or shopping, a stroller helps manage all your bundles.
  • Carrier/Sling - Keeps baby close while keeping hands free.
  • Floor gym/Playpen - Because sometimes you need to go to the bathroom.
  • Onsies for summer babies and Jammies for winter babies - It is wise to resist the urge to buy “outfits” at this stage of the game. Babies spit up, drool, and wet themselves a lot so the best thing to have on hand is lots of onsies for summer babies and jammies for winter babies. Newborn infants must have their heads covered outside in all but the warmest summer months (when they should stay out of the sun, entirely) so be sure to have plenty of cozy stretchy hats on hand, too.
  • Diapers, Medicine and General Care Items:
  • Several packages of diapers in newborn and infant sizes.
  • Several giant packages of wipes.
  • A stash of small wash clothes - and a plastic dish for water for sponge baths on the changing table.
  • Diaper rash creams.
  • Infant ibuprofen and acetaminophen - (Tylenol and Motrin)
  • Anti-gas drops.
  • Nasal aspirator - (babies can’t blow their noses so the aspirator may be necessary to help clear congested nasal passages. There are different kinds out there and the hospital will give you one. They all work differently, so it’s nice to have the variety to experiment with.)
  • Rubbing alcohol and cotton balls - to clean the belly button stump (and to help sterilize clippers, tweezers and nasal aspirators.)
  • A grooming kit - with soft hair brush, comb, tweezers and infant nail clippers.
  • A rectal thermometer - Fancy pacifier thermometers and under-arm patches, in-the-ear thermometers and forehead strips don’t do the job. The most reliable way to take a temperature is rectally. Have your health practitioner show you how to do this on your baby so you are confident that you can take his or her temperature in the middle of the night, if the need arises.
  • Hand soap and anti-bacterial wash - (if you prefer it) for the bathroom for folks to wash their hands before touching the newborn. Hand wash in the diaper bag for the road.

Ask your friends what tools they couldn’t do without and plan the amount of space you have to devote to your baby’s gear. For gear the baby might reject, like swings, borrow one before buying one. Collecting hand-me-downs from relatives or friends is a great help. Another source is a baby shower. You will receive gifts from friends and relatives for you’re soon to be newborn. After all this is collected, you can sit down and take stock of what you have and don’t have. Make a complete listing of what you need before you go out and shop, otherwise you may go over budget and get things that you really don’t need. If you do forget something its ok it is good to buy what you need when you need it. It’s easier and cheaper than buying everything and then disposing of things that don’t work. The number one thing your baby will need is your love and attention; if it has that everything else is just a detail. pdf

Television

Tuesday, April 15th, 2008

Presidential commissions have confirmed the profound effects of television violence on children’s aggressive behavior.  These reports indicate that violent television programming is related to an increase in children’s fighting.  If you do not want to have a physically aggressive child, you may consider monitoring your child’s television viewing habits.  One way to do this is to count the number of aggressive acts in your child’s Saturday morning cartoons.  Then you can decide if you would like her to continue to watch them.

Cartoon watching also seems to have a negative impact on children’s activity levels.  While they sit and stare at the television set, they appear zombie-like; afterward, these same children act overexcited, running helter-skelter with little direction or content in their play.  In all likelihood, a steady diet of superheroes and monsters is harmful.  Also, because two and three year olds are unable to distinguish between fantasy and reality, the evil warriors and monsters may seem real to them, and the characters in some of these daytime “entertainments’ can come back to haunt toddlers at nighttime.  To make matters worse, it is often difficult to tell where the cartoons end and the commercials begin.

However, television can be used for positive ends as well.  Good educational programs, like Sesame Street and Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood, can teach your toddler many interesting things. pdf

Adoptions

Tuesday, April 1st, 2008

Open adoption means something different to every agency.  For instance, the birth mother and adoptive parents can conceivably have an ongoing relationship after the adoption.  In most instances, though, open adoption means that the birth mother is allowed to write a letter to her child that the adoptive parents will present to the child at a certain time, or that an agreement is made to exchange pictures without names and addresses.

Open adoption is easier on the birth mother, since her existence is acknowledged.  This may help reduce her grief after the adoption has taken place because she knows at least a little bit about the baby’s situation.  When birth mothers have less apprehension, they’re less likely to try to find their children later on.

Independent Adoptions

Independent adoption means that you pay the medical and legal expenses for a pregnant woman who will be giving up her child.  While this can be fast, allowing you to bypass agency red tape and restrictions, it can be emotionally devastating if the biological mother changes her mind at the last minute.  Also, the adoption is not final until a judge signs the adoption papers when the baby is between six months and a year old.  Keep in mind that each state has different laws about how long birth parents have the right to change their minds.  If things work out, though, independent adoption can be a beautiful experience.  You may get to take the baby home right from the hospital, whereas with most adoption methods you may not see the child before she’s a month old.  You also have greater intimacy and control, since you will know the birth mother during her pregnancy.  Some adopting couples have actually assisted in the delivery!

The first step in an independent adoption is to find a birth mother.  This is easier said than done, but you can start by notifying relatives and friends.  Other connections might be social workers, members of the clergy, and doctors.  The important thing is to let lots of people know you’re looking.  If you contact the National Adoption Exchange, [1218 Chestnut Street, Philadelphia, PA19107].They’ll put you in touch with local, independent adoption groups.

Know your state law.  We can’t stress this enough.  An oversight with regard to the law can overturn an adoption.  How long do birth parents have a right to change their minds in your state?  Is it permissible to bring a baby into your state from another?  With interstate adoptions, it’s likely you’ll need to be in compliance with the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children, which operates in all parts of the country except

New Jersey and

Washington, DC.  Does the law allow for you to have an intermediary [someone to help you connect with the birth mother] in your state?  Whether or not you can have a lawyer as an intermediary, you’ll need one to advise you about the law, and to do the paperwork.

Costs for independent adoptions can be less than those for private agency adoptions.  Usually, you’ll pay the birth mother’s medical and legal expenses.  Some state laws allow you to pay for her living expenses.  Whatever you do pay, make sure you document it, because things like new cars for the biological mother may suggest baby-buying to a judge, and that’s illegal.

Explaining Adoption

While an adopted infant does not inquire about her origins, an adopted toddler-like any toddler-may.  Direct answers to the queries of adopted children are always best, but remember that a child under the age of three hasn’t the comprehension of an older child.  Simple truthful answers to your toddler’s questions will satisfy her.  “You grew inside your mother and now you’re our little girl,” is one example.  As your child grows older, your answers to her questions will become progressively more complex.

Other family members-especially an adopted child’s siblings and particularly those who are your natural children-should be included in your plan of simple truthfulness.  Never try to hide facts about adopted children from any of your children.  To do so invites misunderstanding and painful future revelations.pdf

Baby Keepsakes

Wednesday, March 26th, 2008

Over the course of our lifetime, we accumulate “stuff” that represents our history, experiences and the good and the bad events that have occurred during our journey through life.

I suppose I am overly sentimental and obsessed with ensuring my own children have keepsakes from their babyhood and beyond. Perhaps it is because I do not have mementos from my babyhood and toddler years that I place a huge importance on ensuring that my children do have treasures that they can appreciate as the years pass by. Call me a pack rat for my kids!

Photographs

Photos are a fabulous means of recording the life of a child.

For each photograph I take of my children, a copy is put into a special box for each of my child. The date and place is recorded on the back of the photograph in addition to additional names of others that may be in the photo. When my children turn 18, I will pass these photographs to my children for their own keeping.

Videos

A wonderful, realistic means of recording actions, words and developments of babies, toddlers and up.

The camcorder is an absolutely fantastic electronic device that I have become close friends with since my first baby. Not only do I take videos, but I also utilize video editing software to record music and sounds to the video clips to make it all the more personalized and interesting to others and my children. A copy of all videos is also put into safe keeping for each of my children.

Clothing and Toys

One cannot keep every single piece of clothing or toy, however, I have kept a piece of clothing and a toy from their newborn stage that has been given by a special person in their life such as grandma, grandpa, aunts and uncles, mommy and daddy and other special family members or friends. As the years go on, I am sure the collection will grow with favorite toys that they have cherished through their childhood or other “stuff” that will bring back fond memories.

Baby / Toddler Record Keeping Books

Recording the particulars of baby’s birth, date of their first steps, the first word spoken, a clipping of hair from their first haircut or all the “firsts” will be a wonderful keepsake for children when they are older. Every person is curious to know what they were like as a baby, what their favorite color or song was, etc. Remember, even parents forget such things and record keeping books are a great method of looking back and remembering your children.

Yes, I am probably Clean Sweep’s biggest nightmare but it is so important to me that I give my children a part of their history and I believe that they will be grateful when they are older and obtain these special treasures.

Personalized baby gifts and gift baskets are among our most popular gift items for newborn babies. Security blankets, baby blankets, plush toys and more embroidered with baby’s first name and birthdates are an excellent baby gift idea. Not only are they enchanting but are a fabulous keepsake gift that will last a lifetime.

Start your little blessing with a gift that will represent their babyhood and start in the journey of life. pdf

Furniture and Furniture Safety

Thursday, November 1st, 2007

High Chairs and Feeding Tablesbaby room

There are a number of consumer safety standards for high chairs. Nonetheless, there are still a large number of injuries. But these are more often the result of careless use than of poor design.

Many babies stand up in and fall out of high chairs, but this could be prevented by using the restraining straps. Adults often think the feeding tray is sufficient for restraining the baby, but it is not. The tray and the baby can fall together; when this happens, injuries can occur if the baby hits the sharp edges of the overturned tray. Other high chair accidents include finger and hand injuries from the collapse of a chair that folds with the baby in it, cuts to fingers from the pincers on some tray latches, and foot injuries that result from tripping over the chair’s extended legs.

Old high chairs can be unsafe for a number of reasons. One is that if the chair was made before 1976, it probably doesn’t conform to the current high chair safety standards. Many of these older chairs are top-heavy and tip over easily. Some lack adequate straps to hold a baby in securely. Some of the hinged trays on them can come crashing down on the small head hand when hit by an active baby.

If a high chair does meet the safety standards [which are voluntary], it will have a label saying it complies with the F404 Safety Standards for High Chairs as certified by the American Society for Testing and Materials. Chairs meeting safety standards will incorporate these safety features:

There is a locking device to prevent a folding chair from accidentally collapsing when it is in the sitting position.

pdfThe joints of the chair have no scissoring action that could cause injury when the chair is being collapsed.

It has sturdy restraining straps. The chair is stable and will not topple if a child climbs up by the footrest.

It can support up to 100 pounds on the seat and fifty pounds on the footrest.

Assembly and usage instructions are easy to understand and follow.

The following warning is provided: ” Warning: The child should be secured in the high chair at all times by the restraining system. The tray is not designed to hold the child in the chair. It is recommended that the chair is only used by children capable of sitting upward unassisted.”

Safety standards aren’t enough. You’re going to have to examine the chair to see if it seems durable, easy to use, easy to clean, and comfortable.

Look at the frame. The legs should be widely separated. You should jiggle the tray and tip the chair over from the rear and front to check for stability and collapsibility.[you’ll find that folding models, which are easier to store will not be as sturdy] the front, or the rear legs, or both, should have a stabilizing crossbar. The chrome finish should have an even, glossy look and feel.

Pinch the seat padding between your thumb and index finger. If you can pull the vinyl up off the padding, chances are its too thin and will eventually tear with use. The foam padding should be firm. Make sure heat-sealed edges on the upholstery aren’t scratchy. Avoid chairs that have decorative welting, trap food particles and make cleaning difficult. [It won’t take you long to realize that food gets caught everywhere it can.].

Look for trays that have spill resistant rims rather than trays without rims or trays with chromed railings and decorative plastic beads. A large wrap-around tray that gives support to the child’s elbow is best. Remove the tray and put it back on several times to see if it’s easy to use. Test its fastening strength by first locking the tray and then trying to remove it from a number of positions while it’s locked. If the tray latches with wide coils, they should be covered, so small fingers can’t possibly get caught in them. Avoid chairs with trays that require you to bend over in order to place the tray correctly on its railing. Check the underside of the tray for sharp edges, pinching latches, or vinyl parts that may tear where they are bolted to the tray. Look for small pieces that could break off the tray if it should fall. And choose a tray that is dishwasher safe, immiscible, and is resistant to scratches. A vinyl tray creates a quieter surface for a beginning drummer than does a metal one.

The chair should have both waist and crotch belts-preferably a pair in which the waist belt threads through the crotch belt. These prevent dangerous falls and entrapment of a baby between the seat base and the tray, which can be fatal. Try the belting system. It should fit over the baby’s abdomen, not her legs; it should be easy to thread; and the belt latch should hold securely when you push it up or down or pull it outward, as a baby will.

You can also purchase a fabric “safe chair” in a well stocked baby shop. It can be used in high chairs in restaurants, where there are often no straps, or it can be used to convert an ordinary chair into a high chair.

The high chair’s footrest should be adjustable so that it can be used comfortably by a six month old as well as a two year old. Wire footrests are more durable than flexible vinyl ones, which tend to tear when weight is put on them. Check the finishing on the wire edges and avoid those with sharp undersides. The footrest should be removable, or should flip out  of the way under the chair to accommodate an older child; however, it should not be so easy to remove that it can’t be trusted to hold the weight and movement of a climbing tot.

A few other things to consider: if there are caps protecting sharp edges or points, make sure they’re difficult to remove. Evaluate the chair without the tray, too, since you’ll probably want to use it at the dinner table before your toddler graduates to a regular chair.

Although wooden chairs are superior in stability and durability, they are plagued with problems. They tend to be difficult to clean, and there are frequently problems with the latches breaking. The seat measurements on wooden chairs tend to make them uncomfortable for one and two year olds and they often have nonadjustable footrests that are far too low on the chair to service babies. They seldom have adequate crotch belts and tend to rely on snap-on leather straps to connect the tray and seat. Wooden chairs with padded seats tend to have staples that fasten vinyl skirts to the seat. Unless you’re willing to add extra padding for comfort and a harness or other restraining device, we don’t recommend wooden high chairs.

You may want to use a feeding table instead of a high chair. They are close to the ground, so there’s less distance to fall and since the child is propped in the middle of the square table, there is less chance of his falling in the first place. One disadvantage is that you can’t pull it up to the table when you want the baby to join the rest of the family for dinner. In addition, feeding tables are much larger than high chairs, and they can be awkward to have in small kitchens, even when they can be stored under the kitchen table when not in use. Bending over to feed a baby at a feeding table can be hard on the back, and getting one in and out of one is more difficult than with a high chair.

Playpens

Playpens, now euphemistically referred to as “play yards”, were once an essential part of standard baby equipment, but research shows that they can actually inhibit a baby’s mental development because they don’t provide for continuous and varied stimulation. Playpens block the inborn drive to touch, to move, and to see. In fact, the “good” babies who sit quietly in the playpen for hours are the very ones who need more human contact and stimulation than the babies who object to confinement in the playpen.

That’s not to say a playpen has no use. It’s a good place to put your baby when momentary restraint is needed for a phone call, meal preparation, or perhaps housework. But it should be used sparingly. The ideal arrangement is a carefully childproofed house where a younger baby can be allowed to exercise on a blanket on the floor, and an older baby to roam under watchful eyes. It is important for babies to practice pulling up, crawling in an unrestrained environment. You can talk to your baby as you work around the house and give him physical freedom. This will provide an excellent learning environment for him.

Many families find that the playpen soon becomes a bulky, possibly unsafe toy depository that takes up space in the living room or nursery indeed. There are over three thousand playpen injuries every year that are serious enough to require emergency room treatment.

Safety standards on playpens are voluntary, so manufacturers aren’t required to meet them, those that do tag their products to notify buyers.

There are two basic types of playpens: those constructed of wood and those made with metal tubing and nylon mesh. Wooden playpens are usually heavier than mesh-sided playpens. They fold down when their two hinged sides sandwich inward as the two floor panels lift up from the center. Mesh playpens call for a variety of folding maneuvers, in some cases even requiring that the playpen be turned completely upside down.

Mesh-sided playpens come in a variety of sizes and shapes, from rectangular crib-size models to larger square and multipaneled designs. The supportive tubing of the playpen is usually constructed of chrome, chrome-plated metal, or aluminum. Some models have straight legs with caps to protect the floor, while others have a bent-tube design; some of the latter may have uncovered metal u-joints that cause floor abrasion and rust stains.

Most soft –sided playpens use vinyl with heat-welted seams for border and at the base of the mesh [providing draft protection] and at the top of the playpen to cover the hinge assembly and the bars. More expensive models have thick foam padding between the vinyl and the bars to prevent injuries to babies should they fall.

If you decide to buy a playpen, keep the following points in mind:

Railings

Railings should be able to support fifty pounds without breaking or bending.

There should be a locking device to prevent the playpen from collapsing accidentally.

Side railings should be at least twenty inches tall to prevent a baby from climbing out.

The playpen should come with a locking device to prevent it from accidentally folding up or the sides being lowered by the baby.

Unlocking the sides should require a dual action.

There should be no scissoring, cutting, or pinching potential at the hinges.

Vinyl

Older models and second hand vinyl-covered playpens often have vinyl on the top rail that, if torn, the baby could bite off and choke on.

Make sure the vinyl upholstery is thick, is not torn, and has no holes. There are hundreds of incidents every year of babies biting off sections of vinyl and ingesting or aspirating them. Pinch the vinyl between your fingers. Thick vinyl is difficult to crease and will feel heavy when separated from the padding; thin vinyl will crease easily and is less durable.

Make sure vinyl seams are heat-welted or stitched. Look for seams that are smooth to the touch. Heat-welted seams should appear even to ensure there’s no problem with splitting. Machine stitched seams should leave no dangling threads, gaps or holes where the stitching has missed the vinyl.

Floors

Floors should be strong enough to hold eighty pounds of static weight.

Floors should be able to withstand fifty pounds of bouncing weight without giving way.

Be sure there are no metal staples or hardware in the floor that could be pulled loose and swallowed.

See that there are no sharp bolt heads that your bay could fall on if the padding were to slip out of place.

Edges

There should be no sharp edges, protrusions, or points that could hurt a baby.

On Wooden Playpens

Slats should be spaced no more than 2 3/8 inches apart [like crib slats].

Wooden surfaces should be finished well and splinter free.

Wooden playpens provide babies with a better view, back support, and bars that can help them pull up into a standing position.

As with cribs, there is the potential that babies can hit their head on bars.

Wooden playpens are heavy and awkward to move, but much safer than mesh ones.

There should be teething rails on all four sides, and they should adhere securely so little fingers cannot get under them.

On Mesh Playpens

Be sure the mesh is tightly woven so clothing can’t catch in it, which could result in strangulation.

When the mesh is woven tightly enough to be safe, the baby’s view is limited, and the world outside the pen will be a blur.

There is a potentially fatal suffocation pocket between the mesh and the mattress when the drop-side is down. Also with the drop-side down, children have cut or pinched their fingers in the locking mechanism.

Equipment and Equipment Safety

Wednesday, October 10th, 2007

Strollers and Carriagesstroller

Having a stroller will make long walks a lot easier. If you’re going to be packing the stroller in the car, you’ll want to invest in a high quality , lightweight model. These strollers are known as umbrella strollers because of the handles which look like umbrella handles. They have lightweight aluminum frames and weigh as little as five pounds.

If you live in the city, and you’ll primarily be using the stroller for walks over cracked sidewalks and curbs, you may want a standard size stroller for its sturdiness. The larger models will also hold more packages than umbrella strollers, and they often have trays that hold toys or snacks, sunshades, multiple-position reclining seat backs, and plastic windbreakers to cover the sides.

You can get both the collapsibility of the lightweight umbrella-handle strollers and the postural support and durability of the larger, heavier models by buying one of the new medium-weight models.

Strollers are not without hazards. In one recent five-year span, there were more than forty thousand stroller related emergency room visits in the United States.

The major cause of injury is babies falling out of strollers and hitting their heads. Baby’s fingers can become entrapped or crushed in the scissoring action of the joints as the stroller is being folded. Babies have also been injured by falling into protruding sharp edges of bolts or other metal parts. Also many strollers, particularly umbrella styles, are unstable and can fall over backward when a baby stands or attempts to stand in the seat.

The Juvenile Manufacturers Association has established a voluntary safety standard for strollers and carriages. Since these standards are voluntary, not all stroller manufacturers have adopted them. And don’t get lulled into thinking that the standards are what they could be. There are no provisions for the restraining belt or latch. While the standards require brakes, there are no safety measures to prevent another child from accidentally releasing them. Also there is no protection offered from the scissoring from joints or from sharp holes in the metal tubing that could capture a child’s fingers, nor is there any specification for how securely caps or other protective devices must be attached to the stroller’s tubing and hardware.

Strollers and carriages that do meet safety standards:

Shouldn’t have any exposed coil springs that could pinch, or otherwise injure a child.

Should have a locking device that prevents accidental collapse.

Should come with safety belts that are attached securely to the frame or upholstery.

Should be stable and unlikely to tip over when on an inclined surface with a child inside.

Should have permanently attached warning that reads “Caution: Secure child in the restraint. Never leave child unattended.”

When shopping for a stroller, look for the following features:

Steering ease

Try pushing the stroller around to see how well it turns corners, and how easily it maneuvers if you only use one hand. The stroller should handle well without veering to one side. A stroller with a single crossbar is easier to handle than one with umbrella type handles.

Stability

The stroller should be stable and unlikely to tip over when in use. If the stroller has a reclining seat, it should not be able to tip backward when the baby lies down.

Collapsibility

Don’t hesitate to try opening and collapsing the stroller before you buy it. You should be able to fold the stroller and open it up again in one or two steps as you hold your baby. If a stroller is going to be difficult and time consuming to operate, you need to know that before you buy it. Make sure there’s a locking device so the stroller can’t collapse accidentally.

Seating

Compare the thickness of vinyl upholstery on several different models by pinching it. The vinyl should be thick and all seams should be well finished. The crotch belt, in particular, should be reinforced where it joins the seat. The seat should be shallow enough to provide back support for a six to eighteen month old baby.

Reclining feature

Very young babies tend to hunch forward in a sling type stroller seat. Tots, too have a hard time napping in an upright position. It’s useful to be able to move the stroller seat into a reclining position. If the stroller does recline, it should have sides to prevent the child from rolling out, even in the lowest position.

Seat belt

The seat belt should actually make contact with even the smallest baby’s waist. The belt material should be strong, and the latches either heat-welted or sewn with multiple seams. The latch should be simple enough for you to operate and yet require enough pressure to open so a curious tot couldn’t release it accidentally.

Front padding or tray

Some strollers have plastic trays. Those that feature small balls fastened by plastic or thin wire aren’t satisfactory, since the balls could splinter or be ingested if they were pulled loose. If a bumper pillow replaces the tray, check underneath to see that it’s securely fastened to the front bar. Pads often pull off, tearing out the screw bed so they can’t be refastened.

Sunshade

Some strollers come equipped with a sunroof, though often the roof is placed so high that it’s useful only during the noon hour. If you plan to use the stroller in the sun, you may want to invest in a flexible-arm umbrella shade, which is offered as an option by some manufacturers.

Wheels and suspension

Wheels with plastic spokes do not hold up well. Opt for steel or aluminum hubs. Suspension systems are seldom available on medium-weight models, but heavy-weight models may offer springs or other types of shock absorbers, which will give your baby a less jarring ride.

Brakes

Brakes should offer a position grip on the tires so they can’t be dislodged. The child should not be able to release the brakes while seated in the stroller.

Baby carriages conjure up images of prams and nannies and walks in the park. A carriage allows you to take long, leisurely walks, even when the baby is very small. Its high sides and hood help protect the baby from side-drafts and bright sunlight, and the soothing bounce from the carriage springs often helps babies sleep.

However, before you run out and buy a carriage, consider a few things. Carriages are quite expensive, and you’ll use a carriage for the first few months. They weigh quite a bit, making them awkward to use and awkward to store. If you bring one along for a trip, you’ll have to collapse it to get it in the trunk of your car. Unless you live where there are winding country roads, traffic and curbs present maneuverability challenges for carriages.

If you decide to purchase a carriage, look for the following features:

Fabric

Choose a thick, moisture resistant fabric, such as one coated in vinyl that can easily be wiped clean.

Steering

Try rolling the carriage around to see how easily it maneuvers. When you press on the bar, you should be able to raise the front wheels high enough to get up and over curbs.

Mattress

If the mattress pad is covered in vinyl, test the thickness of the vinyl by pinching it between your fingers; it should be difficult to crease. Check the finishing on the pad to see that the seams are tightly sewn with no danger of unraveling. The pad should fit flush against all sides of the interior of the carriage.

Brakes

The brakes should hold firmly, preferably on both back wheels, and should not disengage even when you attempt to push the carriage forward. The brake handle should be easy to reach without having to let go of the carriage handle.

Interior safety

There should be no sharp edges from frame hardware inside the carriage bed that could hurt a baby’s head if she’s jostled during maneuvering.

Folding ease

The most economical unit is a two-piece carriage that doubles a carry bed. Try collapsing and setting up the carriage to see how easy it is to handle. Examine the safety locks to make sure they will prevent the carriage from folding accidentally and will hold the carry bed securely. There should be no sharp edges that could hurt the baby’s fingers or your own.

Frame safety

Avoid carriages that have a sharp scissoring action of metal against metal x-joints. These joints could cause crushed fingers when collapsed.pdf

Whether you choose to buy a carriage or a stroller, you can protect your investment from rust by coating chrome areas lightly with petroleum jelly.

Ten Ideas For Mom’s Night Out

Thursday, May 31st, 2007

Like Oprah always says, being a stay at home Mom is the hardest job in the world. She’s right – Mom’s work hard and deserve a break every now and again. Likely you have a circle of friends or group of Moms that you’d like to get to know better so schedule a Mom’s Night Out and let the fun begin! Once you try it, you’ll be setting up Mom’s nights at least once a month so that you can get out of the house, bond with and get validation from other Mothers in the same situation, have some adult interaction and build long-lasting relationships. Get Dad to watch the kids or hire a babysitter so you get the much needed break that you need to rejuvenate. Try some of these great and affordable ideas to kick off Mom’s Night Out.

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1.     Go to the Spa or host a spa party where you give each other manicures

2.      Have a Bunco dice game or group game night.

3.      Go out to a local dinner theater or see a musical show

4.      Throw a pool party or backyard barbecue

5.      Have a dessert or progressive dinner night

6.      Go bowling

7.      Go to a movie or watch a DVD at someone’s home

8.      Do an outdoor activity like biking, canoeing, walking in the park, etc.

9.      Start a book club and have a book discussion

10.   Go to a comedy club show

 

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